Friday, July 24, 2015

6 years - The Story of Us


Can I just say, I had intended to keep up with this blog more frequently, but life kind of gets in the way.  Anyways, one of my goals this summer was to get back into it, not necessarily for you (although I love to share), but for us, for our family.  This place is kind of where our family started, and someday, I hope we can look back at the blog and remember all of the happy times and all of the really hard times, because Lord knows, we have been through and have been blessed by them all.

Today, I want to dedicate this to my sweet husband.  Today is our 6 year anniversary.  When I look back on the past six years, I see smiles, overwhelming joy, frustration and anger, and I see deep sadness.  We have been through so much in the past six years and I can't imagine doing it with anyone else.  We've been through the scary pregnancy and birth of our girls, we've experienced divorce, sickness, major surgeries and nothing compares to the loss of Brett's dad.  But we've also shared so many happy times, like getting to see our babies grow into beautiful toddlers, building a new home and being blessed with my mom living five minutes away.  We've grown in relationship with many new friends and have restored some broken relationships.  We've been blessed with good jobs and our health.  We have much to be thankful for.


I always enjoy hearing how couples met so I thought I would share our story.  In the spring (April) of 2008, I was only a month away from graduating from college and starting to look for teaching jobs.  I had been volunteering with the high school ministry at our church and co-led a mentoring program with a guy named Tony.  I can't remember if Tony asked me in person or messaged me on Facebook, but he told me about his roommate and asked if I'd be interested in meeting him.  The first time he asked, I said "NO"! Ha!  At the time, I just wasn't interested or looking for a relationship, and didn't see the point in meeting him.

Well, thankfully Tony kept asking.. and finally, I said "sure".  Tony agreed to introduce as after church some Sunday.  That Sunday eventually came, and Tony was there with his girlfriend, Lindsey (maybe finance at the time?) and Brett.  I remember walking up, and feeling awkward.  Well, the conversation wasn't any less awkward.  I basically said hi to Brett, talked to Tony, and then walked away.  It didn't go well.  Tony, being somewhat persistent, saw me later that night at our HS group gathering, and asked if Brett could call me and set up a date for coffee or dinner.  Again, I said "sure".  About a week or two later, Brett picked me up on a rainy April night for dinner.  We went to Paisans.  The rest is history, right?  :)

We dated and had an amazing summer!  That August, I moved to Milwaukee for a teaching job, and Brett stayed in Madison.  We decided to continue dating and see how it went with the distance.  We saw each other nearly every weekend, and in December of 2008, Brett proposed.  After school was done that year, I moved back to Madison, we bought a house, and we were married on July 24, 2009 (only 15 months after having met).

One of our first dates in Madison
In Door County (how am I so short?!)
Up at Brett's parents' house
The cold night right after he proposed
After six years, our love has changed.  I no longer get the butterflies that I used to or feel as giddy with excitement when he's around, but our love is is deep and profound.  I can only imagine what it will look like in six more years.  It has been through a lot, and I feel comfortable because I know that he will love me through anything.  Our love will last because we choose daily, to love one another.  We sometimes struggle to make our relationship the most important relationship with have (yes, even more important than our children), but it's something that we continue to work on.  Brett is consistently one of the most patient, hard-working, and best guys I've ever know.  I'm SO thankful he's mine.

6 years later


Saturday, January 4, 2014

The Twins Turn TWO!

On November 20 of this year, Abriella and Eva turned two.  It's hard to believe that two years has passed since I was in the operating room waiting to meet my sweet little girls.  So much has changed since then.  They are walking, running, climbing and getting into EVERYTHING!  They are talking and putting short sentences together.  They repeat everything we say, and they (mainly Eva) wants to do everything "myself... me do it".  Here is a little information on each of the girls at 2:

Ella-  "takes charge"

  • approximately 24 pounds
  • loves grandma's and grandpa's cats (Pete & Sammy) and talks about them all the time
  • has a creative imagination and likes to pretend (especially with her kitchen and play food)
  • LOVES to be outside and throws a fit when we come in
  • tries to dip her finger in mom's coffee every morning as she says, "try, try.."
  • is stubborn as a mule :) would rather stay in time out than say sorry
  • can look at books for 30 minutes at a time
  • likes to treat Roxy, our dog, like a horse
  • LOVES jumping (couches, beds, crib, trampolines, you name it..)
  • very adventurous in trying new things, she is always the first to try something new
  • is more clingy to mom and dad around new people
  • can be very sweet and very animated when she gets excited
  • MUCH prefers mom to put her to sleep
  • LOVES playing hide and seek 
  • obsessed with phones and watching videos like "Itsy Bitsy Spider, The Wheels on the Bus"


Eva- "the gatherer"

  • approximately 23 pounds
  • wants to do everything by herself
  • like her sister, loves the cats
  • enjoys peeling her own oranges "cuties" and would eat 5 at a time if we let her
  • wants to watch "Thomas" every time we get in the car
  • is very particular about EVERYTHING
  • loves to pretend
  • can look at books for 30 minutes at a time
  • prefers daddy
  • LOVES jumping (couches, beds, crib, trampolines, you name it..)
  • likes to "cuddle"
  • every time she gets an "owie", she has to have an ice pack that she puts on her owie for about 2 seconds and then says, "all betta" 
  • LOVES to be outside and throws a fit when we come in
  • is a natural hoarder and carries as much with her as possible
  • she wears and walks around in our shoes all the time, she's getting pretty good at heels
  • loves to be upside down
  • quick to say "sorry" or "sowy", as she says it
  • obsessed with phones and watching videos like "Itsy Bitsy Spider, The Wheels on the Bus"


This year for their birthday, we were fortunate to have two birthday parties with family and friends to celebrate the lives of two, sweet little girls.  It was so fun catching up and spending time with everyone.

Here are some pictures from their birthday parties.

PARTY 1:

                                  
the birthday girls

with great grandma

a house full

jump house from mommy & daddy

cupcakes!

PARTY 2:

 carrot cake

excited for cake!

Tuesday, August 27, 2013

Adios Summer... it's been fun!

As I sit in our air conditioning with the girls sleeping and the crazy dog laying outside in the 95ish degree heat (trust me, I've tried getting her to come in..) I can't help but mourn the end of summer as I go back to work tomorrow.  It's been a really nice break.  Wait, did I just say break?  Yes.. but not in the ways most people think of the word "break".  I didn't take many naps, get to everything on my "to-do" list or get to relax much, but I did get to spend time with my girls, my husband, my mom, my family and friends.  It wasn't my goal to separate myself from work, but that is what ended up happening and I am going to admit it - it was really nice!  I was just MOM this summer and I finally felt a little more in control of everything going on in our household.  I planned and prepared healthy meals, kept up with laundry, made play dates, spent time with friends, was part of a book club, etc.  It was great!

I am hopeful that my few months of "break" are going to make me a better teacher.  I'm rejuvenated and ready to get back into my classroom.

But before I do, I thought I'd recap our summer with some pictures.  Enjoy!

 We went on our first bike ride as a family! 

 We ate cakepops from Starbucks (and mommy had quite a few iced vanilla lattes!).

 We colored and only colored a little on the tile... :)

 We played in Nana's backyard a lot! 

 We read and played with daddy (and celebrated daddy's 2nd father's day!)

 We went to 2 family weddings.

 We spent a LOT of time with Nana! :)

 We rode Uncle Michael's tractor.

 We swam in our pool with cousin Alexis.

 We had our first trip to the Union.

We visited with grandpa a few times.

We finished our patio!

 We had play dates with friends!

 We went tubing.

We saw the sunflowers at Pope Farm.

I hope you enjoyed your summer as much as we (I) did and here's hoping for a great fall!

Friday, July 26, 2013

Whoa, it's been 6 months??

To be completely honest, I am not sure why it's been so long since I have posted!  I was doing so well for a while, and then just kind of ... stopped.  So here I am again, for those of you that are interested in an update on our family.

I'll start with the girls, because well, they are the most interesting. :)  They are doing really well.  We had their 18 month check up with a RN, physical, speech and occupational therapists in June.  Overall, they are right on track with their birth age.  Cognitively they are perfect and are somewhere between their birth age and their corrected age for physical development.  I had to laugh though, because some of the things they wanted them to do are things I don't let them do at home, so why they would be able to do them was beyond me!  For example, they were supposed to be able to jump off the bottom stop and climb stairs (going up and down) by holding on to a railing.  When I am trying to help them both go up or down the stairs by myself, my only concern is safety and not falling, so needless to say, we don't practice those skills maybe as often as we should.  I'm very happy with their progress though, and I am truly blessed to have healthy daughters.  Here are some quick stats.

Abriella (20 months)- Currently weighing in at 22 pounds.  Her favorite activities are going "OUTSIDE" (a word she loves to yell), running Roxy or "Ra-ra" (our dog) over with her baby strollers and shopping carts, helping mom unpack groceries and empty the dishwasher, running and playing on the couch downstairs, taking baths, swimming, and she still LOVES to read!  Her vocabulary continues to surprise me.  People always say that around 20-21 months, their vocabulary just takes off and I am definitely noticing it.  She surprised me with the word "yellow" yesterday and she loves to say "coffee" when she sees me with a cup.  Oh, and she no longer drinks water without ICE.  She and her sister are ~obsessed~ with "iccccce" and have to put the ice in their cups themselves.  Roxy has to have ice for her water too. :)



Eva (20 months)- Currently weighing in at 21.5 pounds.  Her favorite activities are also going "OUTSIDE" or downstairs to play, running Roxy over with her baby strollers and shopping carts, riding her turtle that sings and bounces, getting piggy-back rides from mom, singing the "Itsy Bitsy Spider" and showing me her hand motions, playing with her babies, swimming, baths, reading and like her sister is obsessed with ICE!  The other new thing with Eva lately is that she will not walk unless she gets to hold Roxy's leash in the stoller.  Roxy is usually pretty good, and doesn't mind!  Just like Ella, she is starting to talk a lot more and her vocabulary is also improving daily.


Brett and I just celebrated 4 years of marriage this week and were able to get away for a few days earlier in the week.  My dad got us a gift certificate to a bed and breakfast in Door County.  Since our honeymoon, Brett and I have a love of B&Bs.  This one was in Bailey's Harbor and was amazing!  Brett's parents and my mom both helped watch the girls while we were away.  It was the first time we both got away for more than the night.  We enjoyed quiet dinners (where we actually got to sit and eat), time to talk, read, and of course.. SLEEP!  Here are some pictures from our trip.

 In Egg Harbor, visiting the marina that Brett designed!

 Our water access

 The B&B we stayed at

 Date night to celebrate 4 years

Our favorite morning activity.  I want one now!

Other than that, Brett is doing well.  He continues to work and do well at Strand Associates.  He is currently working on the Verona Rd. project, which we are NOT looking forward to the five years of construction.  It will be cool to see the end result though, some day!  He has also been busy doing house projects.  We recently finished our basement and put a patio in out back.  He was very involved in both of those projects, which took a lot of time (and money)!  He is playing softball this summer and just enjoying time with the girls.  I'm blessed to have such a great partner!

As for me, I am LOVING summer at home with my girls!  We have been having a lot of fun with play dates, trips to the library, swimming and going Nana's new house.  Staying busy keeps all of us sane.  It's hard to believe I only have one month left and then it's back to work.  I will be dropping to .83 FTE this year, which is teaching one less class, but I am finishing up my masters in administration this spring, so I'll have 2 classes this year and also 200 hours of practicum that I'll need to get in.  So I'll be wearing 2 different hats this year (teacher and administrator).  I'm excited to get some experience and see if it's really for me!  I'm also mentoring our new Spanish teacher.  So the part-time gig seemed only fitting, since I really won't be "part-time".  My mom will continue to watch the girls 3 days and our other caregiver, Maria will come to our house the other 2 days.  We are so fortunate and thankful for the care we have.

Finally, the other new thing for me, is that I will be a contributor to the "Madison Moms Blog" which will launch August 5th.  I will be working with a great group of moms and will post twice a month.  I'll post links so you can check out the blog.  For now, if you are interested, you can check out Madison Moms Blog on facebook!  I'm looking forward to this opportunity and I hope you will check it out.  



Sunday, November 25, 2012

Eva & Ella turn ONE!

On Tuesday, November 20th, Abriella Anne and Eva Marlene turned one.  It is so hard to believe that it's been a year.  Brett and I are so blessed to be parents to our sweet miracles.  God has given us this blessing, and we could not be more thankful.

One year ago...

Ella, 3 lbs. 6 oz.

Eva, 3 lbs. 1 oz.

Now...

Ella, 17 lbs. 3 oz. & Eva, 16 lbs. 8 oz.

On Saturday, we were able to celebrate Ella's & Eva's lives with our family and friends.  We have such great people in our lives and couldn't have made it through the first year in one piece without them.  So, thank you to everyone that has been there for us to support us and to just be a friend.  We appreciate you and Ella & Eva say thank you!

Here are a couple of shots from their 1st birthday party!

Ella

Eva

 First sweets... carrot cake cupcakes for the bday girls!

Enjoying their "ball pit"

 Miss Eva

Playing with their new toys

 Eva loving life 

 Enjoying their new chairs from Grandma O.

 Mommy with the bday girls!